Flip The Script, Day 5. Adoptees are not “almost-abortions.”
As an adoptee the world has generally left me with two fates: abortion or adoption. Dead or “unwanted.”
My self-worth does not benefit from either of these choices.
Turns out they weren’t the only choices. Because they are not opposites. They are not either or.
My other fate: being raised by my mother. Not too many want to give me that option.
Not too many want to give young single women or women in poverty that option.
Not too many want to understand the pain and loss in adoption.
I just want the world to see there are more choices.
I just want the world to stop thinking separating mother and child has no consequences.
I just want the world to stop telling adoptees be glad you aren’t dead.
I just want the world to know that abortion was never my fate. ever. so stop asking me to be grateful…
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2 thoughts on “On Adoption: My Narrow and Limited Fate”
Thanks for the reblog 🙂
Thanks for writing it, cribmate.